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Tips During Sex

admin — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 03:39:14 +0000

LADIES:
A few men said “Don’t forget to touch our balls!” to help us out.

Offering to let him come on your face will make his day. If that’s too graphic for you, let him come on your chest instead.

Men don’t only love penis massages they love back and shoulder massages, too.

Men have nipples, too, and sometimes, they can be very sensitive. His jewels isn’t the only place he wants you to kiss

Assume your guy’s anus is feeling neglected, too. Some guys are extra kinky. He just might be too embarrassed to ask for it, so let your fingers wander and see what happens.

GENTLEMAN:
Change your style. Variety is the spice of sex. Don’t be afraid to try things and ask her how it feels. Women aren’t always comfortable telling men what they want.

For women, the seductive period leading up to the nakedness is important. Generally, women want anything you do with your tongue to be long and slow.

Always verbally express your appreciation of your partner’s body at any given opportunity. Women are vain; they want to hear all the time how beautiful we are. They’re also insecure about our physical presence.

Many women are shy about asking for oral sex, but really do want it. If she doesn’t ask, give it a try anyway. Kiss your way from her neck all the way down her chest, stomach and thighs, then go for it. If she likes it, she’ll be happy to let you keep going. In the unlikely event that she doesn’t, or if she just isn’t in the mood, she’ll be sure to stop you. Or she may want you to do it for a while, then move on to regular intercourse.

Whenever a woman says she wants things to go slower, take what you think is slower and multiply it by 10. Women often complain that guys work too quickly through the stages kissing, hands on boobs, hands on crotch. The time you spend at each stage should be longer women want to be teased.

How To Talk Sexy Dirty

admin — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:14:27 +0000

Be authentic in your dirty talk.
Dirty talk can feel silly if you expect it to be what you’ve seen in the movies. But good dirty talk is completely what you make it, and to do it well, you have to be yourself. While you may take on a role in your dirty talk you need to find something of yourself in the role. Make a list of different aspects of your personality you can draw on for inspiration.
Find your dirty talk voice.
You need to find your own way of talking dirty. Your dirty talk might be low rhythmic grunts, high pitched squeals, or precise whispers. It might reflect the way you talk in your daily life, or it might express a different aspect of your personality. You don’t need to pick only one voice, the element of surprise can add an extra sense of anticipation, when your partner doesn’t know what they’re going to get an earful of next!
Expand your dirty talk vocabulary.
Most of us are raised not to swear. Dirty talk is your opportunity to pull out all the stops on the foul mouth express. Unless you’re role playing calls for it, avoid clinical terms (like penis). If you’re at a loss, do some research. Both of the books recommended below have lists of words. But you can do research online, by reading some raunchy erotica, or in some cases watching porn.
Practice dirty talk when you’re alone.
Suggests starting on your own, talking dirty while you masterbate. Fantasize about having sex with your partner and talking dirty to them. You can start by doing it in your head, but eventually do it out loud.
Establish ground rules with your partner.
One of the reasons many of us don’t talk dirty is fear of sounding ridiculous, or being put down or rejected by a partner. It’s important to set some rules when you’re willing to take risks like this. Rules like no laughing at one another, and no judgment are important. In the heat of the moment anything can come out of your mouth, and you need to know that your partner is respectful of the ways that can be exposing.
Start slow the first time.
Don’t feel you have to rush right into elaborate verbal gymnastics. A great way to start with dirty talk is to describe out loud what is happening during sex. Things like “I love the way your hand feels in my….” Or “Your …feels so good on/in my…” Describe what’s happening and how it feels in your body. You can also experiment by telling your partner something you’re going to do to them, or something you want them to do to you.
Experiment with your voice.
Most of us take for granted all the different things we can do with our voice, and the impact these changes have. Experiment with speed, how fast you talk. Some things call for a staccato barrage, while some things are best said slowly. Change the volume of your voice, try whispering, try screaming, try everything in the middle. Also play with the tenor of your voice. You can sound commanding and harsh, trembling and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
Make dirty talking a two way conversation.
Once you’ve taken the risk and initiated talking dirty with your partner, ask them to do the same. It isn’t for everyone, and you might find that you like doing it more than hearing it (or vice versa). But being on the receiving and the giving end of dirty talk can give you a different perspective.

Tips for Talking With Your Kids About Sex

admin — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:08:49 +0000

Tips for Talking With Your Kids About Sex

1. Start early.
2. Initiate conversations with your child.
3. …Even about sex and sexuality.
4. Create an open environment.
5. Communicate your own values.
6. Listen to your child.
7. Try to be honest.
8. Be patient.
9. Use everyday opportunities to Talk.
10. Talk about it again. And, again.

General Facts About STDs

admin — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:02:21 +0000

General Facts About STDs

Sexually transmitted diseases (also called STDs, or STIs for sexually transmitted infections) are infections that can be transferred from one person to another through sexual contact. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, there are over 15 million cases of sexually transmitted disease cases reported annually in the United States. There are more than 25 diseases that are transmitted through sexual activity. Other than HIV, the most common STDs in the United States are chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes, human papillomavirus, hepatitis B, trichomoniasis, and bacterial vaginosis. Adolescents and young adults are the age groups at the greatest risk for acquiring an STD. Approximately 19 million new infections occur each year, almost half of them among people ages 15 to 24.

Some STDs can have severe consequences, especially in women, if not treated, which is why it is so important to go for STD testing. Some STDs can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, which can cause infertility, while others may even be fatal. STDs can be prevented by refraining from sexual activity, and to a certain extent, some contraceptive devices, such as condoms.
Specific STDs: An Overview

Human Papilloma Virus:The human papilloma virus is thought to be one of the main causes of cervical cancer. It has also been linked with other types of cancers of the female reproductive system. While HPV can be treated to reduce the signs and symptoms, there is currently no cure for this virus. However, the HPV vaccine has recently been developed to prevent HPV infection.
HUMAN PAPILLOMA VIRUS
About HPV
HPV Symptoms
HPV Treatments
Cervical Cancer
HPV Vaccine

Herpes Virus:Herpes is another STD that presently has no cure. However, treatment is available and there are a number of things you can do yourself at home to help relieve your genital herpes, as well as natural herpes treatment. Herpes symptoms include blisters or sores that periodically break out on the genitals. Take a look at our FAQs on genital herpes to learn even more about this uncomfortable STD.
HERPES SIMPLEX 2
Herpes Overview
Herpes Symptoms
Natural Treatment
Herpes Treatments
Herpes FAQ

Hepatitis: Although there is no cure for those already infected, there is now a Hepatitis B (HBV) vaccine available to prevent the spread of this infection. Many are asymptomatic, however those who do suffer from Hepatitis B symptoms may have many unpleasant discomforts. Even though there is a possibility that the infection will clear up on its own, some people suffer from chronic infections for many years. Treatment is available for chronic sufferers. Other types of hepatitis infections that can be passed through sexual contact include Hepatitis A and Hepatitis C.
HEPATITIS
About Hepatitis B
Hepatitis B Symptoms
Hepatitis B Treatment
Hepatitis A

HIV/AIDS: One STD that many people are worried about getting is HIV. While new ways of treating this infection can significantly prolong an infected person’s life, for far too many people this infection eventually progresses to AIDS and, ulitmately, death. More than 40 million people worldwide are infected with the HIV virus; women account for 50% of those infected. Recently, studies have found a link between the use of hormonal birth control and HIV. In the US, African Americans account for a disproportionate number of HIV cases. Many people may not realize they are infected, as the HIV virus is often asymptomatic for the first few years. HIV testing is the only sure way to know if you are infected. However, you can take steps to help prevent the infection. Find out about a new method that could prevent an HIV infection in women using the cervical cap and microbicides.
HUMAN IMMUNO-
DEFICIENCY VIRUS
About HIV
HIV Symptoms
HIV Treatment
HIV Testing
HIV Prevention
HIV and Microbicides
HIV & Pregnancy
HIV and Birth Control
HIV/AIDS & African Americans

Syphilis: Throughout history, cases of syphilis have been recorded. While this STD has not always been effectively dealt with, nowadays, syphilis can easily be treated and cured. However, as history has shown, without treatment, syphilis symptoms can progress and affect the nervous system and brain leading to dementia and even death.
SYPHILIS
About Syphilis
Syphilis Symptoms
Syphilis Treatment

Trichomoniasis:Trichomoniasis is one of the most common, curable STDs out there. However, symptoms of trich may be mistaken for a yeast infection causing a women to use the wrong type of treatment for her vaginal discharge.
TRICHOMONIASIS
About Trichomoniasis
Trich Symptoms
Trich Treatment

Common Infections:Chlamydia and gonorrhea often infect a person at the same time. Although the symptoms of chlamydia are different from gonorrhea symptoms, it is not unusual for a person to be asymptomatic. If you are testing for chlamydia, it may be a good idea to also test for gonorrhea at the same time. Both STDs can be cured but can also do damage to your reproductive system if left untreated.
CHLAMYDIA & GONORRHEA
About Chlamydia
Chlamydia Symptoms
Chlamydia Testing
About Gonorrhea
Gonorrhea Symptoms
Gonorrhea Testi

Pubic Lice: A very common STD, crabs are very similar to head lice. While the itchy symptoms can be hard to miss, treatment for pubic lice can easily take care of the discomfort these pests can cause.
PUBIC LICE
About Crabs
Crab Symptoms
Crab Treatment

Rare Infections: Some STDs, like granuloma inguinale and chancroid, are not so well known in North America, but that doesn’t mean your not at risk of contracting these infections. Other lesser-talked about STDs include nongonococcal urethritis, molluscum contagiosum, and lymphogranuloma venereum.
RARE STDS
Granuloma Inguinale
Chancroid
Nongonococcal Urethritis
Lymphogranuloma Venereum
Molluscum Contagiosum

Make No Mistake:Sometimes STD symptoms can be confused with mononucleosis. Characterized by a fever, sore throat, and extreme weakness, mono is a viral infection that needs to be treated right away. If you think you have the illness, seek mono treatment as soon as possible. Also, yeast infection can cause painful itching and burning, and can even be transmitted sexually.